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Answers
to Parental Questions about ADHD
This information
was provided by St. Johns
Mercy Child Psychiatry.
Today there are
concerns that children have been overly diagnosed and treated for ADD.
While these concerns are significant, there are many factors to weigh
in todays society to appropriately evaluate the question of over-diagnosing.
Some frequently asked questions by parents are:
1. Why is ADD being diagnosed now when it wasnt before?
ADD was not diagnosed as accurately years ago, as there was less research
and knowledge of the effects. Today adults are being diagnosed who spent
a lifetime of compensating to overcome ADD. Many adults have devised
techniques to remember and organize, and they struggle to complete tasks
that often require two to three times the effort others have to put
forth. Most of these adults have average to above average intelligence.
2. Is ADD genetic?
Often one or the other parent has a history of being ADD as a child.
Often parents feel that if they managed to get through it, so can their
children. Mothers at times will be more cognizant of the childs
ADD behavior than the father due to varying work schedules and time
spent with the child, making it difficult for fathers to accept if they
have experienced the behavior less. It is important on any evaluation
to have both parents present so they equally are aware of the concerns
and each can have their questions answered.
3. Why cant my child have special attention and help? Schools
should adapt to the child!
Society is now more fast-paced. With advanced technology, children are
often asked to fit in but usually not at the expense of a childs
special needs. Children do need to adapt to the classroom and peer relationships
within reason. Schools do provide special behavior modification programs,
resource-room help and testing for learning disabilities. However, there
is a point when a child is seriously unable to pay attention enough
to learn, and an evaluation for ADD may be helpful.
4. I dont want my child on medications!
As a parent, this is your right. No parent should give a child medication
unless they are comfortable with the decision. On the other hand, dont
blatantly rule out medications at all cost if it might help your child.
Avenues to try before considering the possible need for medication would
be reward plans, behavior modification, reducing external stimuli, structuring
the environment and resource-room help. For many, medication has
changed the lives of the child and family in a positive manner.
When medicating, the least amount of medication should be used to bring
out the best of the child. Only a child/adolescent psychiatrist, pediatrician
or family physician that is comfortable and knowledgeable about regulating
ADD medications for children should prescribe any ADD medication. Consider
the effects that ADD may be having on your child before you rule out
medications.
5. What medications are available? I have heard bad things about
Ritalin, and it scares me.
Ritalin is a safe medication that has been prescribed successfully for
years. The regulation of this medication is adjusted with the doctor
based on feedback from the child, family and teacher about the changes
noted. The adjustment for each child is individualized according to
their specific needs. Some children may only take medication on school
days but not on weekends, holidays or the summer. Others may require
more consistent dosing. It is important to remember that learning does
not only occur at school but in fun relationships with peers and family.
Some children on Ritalin may experience a decrease in appetite. Most
parents adjust medication after the meals, provide nutritious snacks
and observe food intake. For some children on high doses at a young
age, there have been concerns it may slow growth. Research has found
the childs growth returns to normal over time. For many parents,
Ritalin has been a miracle that allowed them to discover their talented
child. Adderall is a new, safe medication that originally was very effective
for ADD and is now found to have a positive response for ADHD with minimal
side effects. Other medications used may be Cylert, Dexedrine, Wellbutrin,
Effexor, Depakote. New once-a-day medications Concerta and Adderall
XR are now available. The key when medicating a child is to bring
out the best of the childs capabilities with the least amount
of medication.
6. Why can my child pay attention to video games or computers but
not at school?
ADD children seem able to focus on fast moving action such as a video
game or computer. There is some belief that the rapid action matches
their rapid thinking, which helps to retain focus.
7. My child seems to have low self-esteem and I am worried. What
should I do?
Most children want to do well. ADD children try hard to please and are
often puzzled when, try as they might, they still get in trouble. Often
the child is blamed, scolded, or given time-outs for his behavior or
lack of homework completion. They may be held in from recess, then become
teased by peers, labeled, and begin to isolate from normal peer fun
relationships. Eventually the child blames himself, feels he is stupid,
becomes discouraged and gives up.
8. I am frustrated as a parent, and I dont know what else I
can do.
There is usually a family cycle of frustration. The parent wants their
child to succeed and when the child doesnt, parents feel they
need to do a better job of parenting. "I know he has the ability
to do this, he is just lazy or unmotivated." Parents feel they
have failed and need to try harder, so they stress more intensely the
expectations to concentrate, listen, do the work that is not within
their ability to do. They often have the intellectual ability but not
the concentrating ability. The child feels more pressure, is unable
to meet the expectations, often becomes frustrated then anger escalates
out of control and the whole family becomes discouraged. The child again
feels bad because they have not pleased mom or dad. Often the child
is brighter than the average student but is unable to produce evidence
of their abilities without medication.
9. What is going on in my childs mind?
Often their thoughts are racing, many different thoughts are occurring
at one time which prevents the ability to listen and learn. Some children
daydream, are easily distracted, unable to sit still enough to absorb
information. If you dont absorb information how can you use it?
The child needs help to absorb and retain information so they can productively
use it.
10. Are there screening tests for ADD?
Yes, most schools have access to the Conners Inventory for Parent, Teacher
and Youth Self Report. Most child/adolescent psychiatrists and pediatricians
have access to these screens. CHADD is an online web site for ADHD with
helpful information.
11. What should I look for in a good assessment for ADD?
It is important that numerous areas are evaluated to rule out the possibility
of other concerns that may be affecting the child, with or without ADD.
Areas to evaluate are: family history and issues, developmental history,
medical history, school performance, stresses current and past, drug
and alcohol use, past treatment, and characteristics of ADD. It is important
to receive information from numerous sources as parents, teachers, and
others in the childs life. When numerous sources provide input,
patterns and themes of behavior may become apparent that support a fully
evaluated diagnosis of ADD.
12. How is ADD diagnosed? What does ADD, ADHD mean? Is it all the
same?
ADHD means Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. To diagnose this,
there are specific criteria established in the DSM IV (Diagnostic and
Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders). There are three diagnostic
categories:
- ADHD- Inattentive
Type A child has difficulty concentrating, paying attention,
is distracted easily, daydreams, forgets a lot, something is always
missing as is hard to organize every expectation of the whole in comparison
to his peers.
- ADHD- Hyperactive/Impulsive
Type A child has difficulty sitting still, talks excessively,
is disruptive, fidgety, impulsive, has non-stop energy, is difficult
to manage.
- ADHD- Combined
Type These children experience both ADD and the hyper characteristics.
13. If you believe
your child needs an evaluation, here are some resources:
- Check with your
school for teacher concerns.
- Discuss your
concerns with your pediatrician.
- ADHD assessments
are now available at St. Johns Mercy Child Psychiatry. Some
insurance plans cover the assessment, and they are also available
as self-pay. For an appointment, call 314-251-6898.
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ADHD
assessments are now available at St. Johns Mercy Child Psychiatry.
Some insurance plans cover the assessment, and they are also available
as self-pay. For an appointment,
call 314-251-6898.
For more information about ADHD, please visit our Attention-Deficit
/ Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) Web module.
For physician referral information,
please call 314-FOR-DOCS or 1-888-700-7171.
Other online resources:
American Academy
of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry
American Academy
of Pediatric (AAP)
American Psychiatric
Association
American Psychological
Association
Children and
Adults with Attention Deficit Disorder
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